What to say if they say...

There's no script that works every time — but these approaches, based on CRAFT (Community Reinforcement and Family Training), tend to keep the door open instead of closing it. Tap any line to expand.

The pattern underneath all of these: reflect what you notice without arguing over the label, keep the focus on your own observation and feelings, and avoid ultimatums you're not prepared to keep. None of this means staying silent about real concerns.